
Broken hearts
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I’m Neil.
I’m Rob.
How’s your heart,
Rob?
fine,
I hope,
as far as I know.
not my heart specifically,
but my health in general,
yes.
I like to exercise regularly and I try to eat healthy foods.
You’re making that up,
Neil!
Don’t believe him,
listeners.
It would break my heart if people thought I ate junk food.
‘It would break my heart.’
We say that when we talk about things that upset us.
Of course,
we don’t really mean that our heart is actually breaking.
you do sometimes hear stories about people who they say ‘died from a broken heart’.
can you die from a broken heart?
First though,
the quiz question.
The first human-to-human heart transplant took place in 1967.
But what country was it in?
Was it:
a) South Africa
b) USA
c) China
What do you think,
Rob?
I think it is definitely a) South Africa.
we’ll give you the answer at the end of the programme.
Now back to the subject of broken hearts and if you can die from one.
Dr Nikki Stamp is an Australian heart surgeon.
She’s written a book,
helpfully called ‘Can You Die From A Broken Heart?’
She was a guest on the BBC Radio 4 programme Woman’s Hour and was asked that very question.
Does she think it is possible?
short answer is yes.
It’s a little bit more nuanced than that.
For most of us when we have a broken heart whether it’s bereavement or a relationship coming to an end we will be fine.
We’ll muddle our way through it,
we’ll take not so good care of ourselves but we’ll get there.
However the physical effects still happen and it is a big stress on your emotions obviously but also on your body.
But Rob,
is it as clear and simple as that?
no.
She said it was a bit more nuanced.
This means it’s not a simple relationship.
A situation that is nuanced has small but possibly important differences.
didn’t she?
she talked about times of great unhappiness and emotional stress.
One of the ones she mentioned was bereavement.
Bereavement is the intense feeling of sadness we get when someone close to us dies.
as Dr Stamp said,
when a relationship comes to an end.
So if your boyfriend,
girlfriend,
husband wife or lover decides they no longer want to be with you.
But thankfully,
they don’t usually lead to death.
She said that usually we muddle through.
This expression means that we get through our sadness.
Maybe slowly and maybe we don’t think clearly and don’t make the right decisions –
but in the end,
we mend our broken hearts.
a few people though,
the emotional stress does have an effect on the body,
it does lead to physical symptoms and sometimes,
sadly,
death.
Here’s Dr Stamp again.
Which expression does she use instead of the word ‘died’?
you will die of a broken heart.
We do tend to see that in elderly people who you know,
like a few weeks after grandma passed away,
grandad passed away not long after.
but heart problems still exist for many,
particularly those who are very overweight.
This is a problem in many parts of the world.
But why is that?
We have less and less free time,
as we are spending more time working.
Prioritising means deciding how important different things are.
So we are not thinking of our health as being as important as we should.
well we’re quite time-poor in this programme,
so it’s time for the answer to our quiz.
In which country was the first human-to-human heart transplant carried out?
The choices were South Africa,
USA or China.
What did you say,
Rob?
I was sure it was South Africa.
you were right to be sure because the answer is South Africa.
Congratulations if you got that right.
Now just time to recap today’s vocabulary.
we started off with nuanced.
This adjective means 'something is not as simple as it might seem.
There may be small but important things that need to be considered’.
The sadness we feel when someone close to us has passed away.
and it’s a more gentle way of saying ‘died’.
This expression means 'to get to the end of a difficult situation somehow.
Not always by making the right decisions but in the end,
getting there’.
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